Light the Fire Within and you BECOME the Light Throughthe fires of grief, heartache and anger old paradigms begin to dissolve. We emerge anew-awakening to our authentic true selves. Growing Pains Relationships come to fill us up and reflect our wounds and insecurities so they can me healed and let go. Those issues or reflections are not the problem they are shining light on fears, insecurities, and things within both people giving each the opportunity to go within and heal.